dead shortly afterwards
Thynnid flower Wasp. Note wingless female being carried around during matting and feeding.
~10mm long
Note the horns/spines on the rear of the thorax.
2 views of the face, showing hair & bare patch, the other forehead.
Looks similar to:
https://inaturalist.ala.org.au/observations/26199564
Until your realises John's is very hairy, ours is bald; except for tiny hairs on the face.